Fred Y asked:
I’ve been married for only 5 months. Several days ago, my wife told me she wanted a divorce. She told me she is still very much in love with me, but marriage life is not for her. I asked her is there is another man, she said no, there is nobody else, and no, she’s not a lesbian, she just needs her space.
Before we started dating, she asked me to buy her lots expensive stuff, jewelries, clothes, shoes, designer handbags, expensive make ups, luxury trips, etc. I didn’t doubt her intention, I bought everything she asked me to, because I love her with all my heart. She has suffered from anxiety attack, (many many of them), depression, and she is very addicted to food. She’s overweight, but I have accepted her for who she is. I have been cheated on and lied to by many women in my past, so when I met her, her honesty touched my heart. I gave her 110%, and I devoted to her completely. Since I traveled a lot, I have many many chances to cheat on her, but I didn’t and I had zero intentions to.
But now, after only 5 months, she wants out. She said she’s frustrated because I don’t show emotions anymore, I don’t spoil her as much as I used to. Well, how do I know what she wants me to buy. I cooked her dinner (spent whole afternoon in the kitchen), and when she came back from work, all she could say is “I am tired, don’t feel like eating.” (then got up in the middle of the night snack on junk food) She let me sleep in the other room for 2 weeks straight, and walked in front of me naked, got me hot and bothered, and then told me I better go jerk off in the shower since that is what I am going to do anyway. Why does she toy with my emotions like this? What’s going on here?
Valerie
I’ve been married for only 5 months. Several days ago, my wife told me she wanted a divorce. She told me she is still very much in love with me, but marriage life is not for her. I asked her is there is another man, she said no, there is nobody else, and no, she’s not a lesbian, she just needs her space.
Before we started dating, she asked me to buy her lots expensive stuff, jewelries, clothes, shoes, designer handbags, expensive make ups, luxury trips, etc. I didn’t doubt her intention, I bought everything she asked me to, because I love her with all my heart. She has suffered from anxiety attack, (many many of them), depression, and she is very addicted to food. She’s overweight, but I have accepted her for who she is. I have been cheated on and lied to by many women in my past, so when I met her, her honesty touched my heart. I gave her 110%, and I devoted to her completely. Since I traveled a lot, I have many many chances to cheat on her, but I didn’t and I had zero intentions to.
But now, after only 5 months, she wants out. She said she’s frustrated because I don’t show emotions anymore, I don’t spoil her as much as I used to. Well, how do I know what she wants me to buy. I cooked her dinner (spent whole afternoon in the kitchen), and when she came back from work, all she could say is “I am tired, don’t feel like eating.” (then got up in the middle of the night snack on junk food) She let me sleep in the other room for 2 weeks straight, and walked in front of me naked, got me hot and bothered, and then told me I better go jerk off in the shower since that is what I am going to do anyway. Why does she toy with my emotions like this? What’s going on here?
Valerie
